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10 Signs That You Have a Perfect Relationship, Even If You Don’t Think So


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10 Signs That You Have a Perfect Relationship

From time to time people may doubt whether their relationship is good.

Here are ten signs that you have a perfect relationship:

1 – You don’t talk a lot.


You can be together in silence for a long time. You don’t feel uncomfortable and you don’t have to talk all the time. Doctor Roni Beth thinks that the couples that can just be together in silence, doing their own thing, have a very special connection.

2 – You go on vacations separately.


The number of people who go on vacation without their partners is growing, with around one-third of American adults admitting they go on solo trips. It can even make your relationship stronger: if you truly love your partner, you will miss them.

At the same time, you can do whatever you want. For example, you can go and visit museums while your partner is out somewhere climbing mountains.


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3 – Your partner doesn’t spend time with your family.


If your parents and your partner get along well, that’s great. But it’s far less pleasant if they don’t like each other. This doesn’t have to be a source of conflict though. Your partner doesn’t have to take part in family dinners with your parents, but he or she can still love you and respect your relatives. importantly, You just need to set the ground rules as soon as possible.

4 – You have different views and interests.


Doctor Mark White thinks that people overemphasize the value of similar hobbies. In his opinion, common interests may just help people ignore their problems and prolong a relationship that is no longer viable. On the other hand, Psychologist Diane Barth thinks that most of us need someone different from us, to make us strong and make our lives richer.


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5 – You argue often.


Sometimes when you are very angry with each other, you have arguments. Doctor Elizabeth Dorrance says that the people we love the most, get the most of our negative emotions. On the other hand, conflicts are good for relationships, because they indicate that you both need to change something. It is important to be able to end conflicts on a positive note and admit your mistakes.

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10 Signs That You Have a Perfect Relationship

6 – You don’t try to please each other at your own expense.


You don’t do the things your partner doesn’t like doing for them. You do the housework together. Psychologist Atalanta Beaumont is against trying to please your partner a lot. If someone tries to help other people too much, it may be because in childhood, their effort wasn’t rewarded or they didn’t feel like they were good enough.


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7 – You sleep separately.


You sleep separately because one of you snores in their sleep and the other one wakes up to the smallest noise. Psychologist Katherine Schreiber says that more and more couples are sleeping separately nowadays. Scientists at Ohio State University prove that healthy sleep is far more useful for a relationship than sleeping together.

8 – You don’t have kids.


You both accept this fact and it’s okay for both of you. Psychologists say that childless couples are often happier than those that have children.


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9 – You spend less time together than you want.


You can’t spend a lot of time together, but you don’t worry about it: you trust your partner and you are sure about their feelings. Of course, how much time you spend together is important, but according to psychologists, how you spend it is way more important. Doing something together has to make both partners happy.


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10 – You express your feelings in different ways.


You can have different ideas about how to express your feelings. For one of you, words are important, for the other one — actions, hugs, and other things are important. A study shows: people who stay in a marriage for a long time treat buying food or cleaning at home as a way to show love and care.

It’s important to know the way in which someone best expresses and best receives signs of love/affection. A lot of guys are physical lovers, meaning that they best receive signs of affection through literal physical affection, like a kiss or hug that wasn’t asked for. On that same token, they might have a partner whose love language is something like the written word or speech, these kinds of people love to be told, in elegant and profound ways, about the feelings their partners hold. Things like love letters, long talks, and friendly notes make them feel appreciated and show them the true feelings of someone.


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